My son has been playing lots of games on his computer. I just found out that he has been playing many of these games online with complete strangers who he met in “gaming rooms.” I was wondering if you have any safety advice for people gaming online.



When children and teens play online with friends or family, there is usually no problem however, when complete strangers work their way into these games, serious issues can arise. To help avoid these issues, the Brockton Police Department would like to provide the following online gaming safety tips offered by NetSmartz, a program of the National center for Missing and Exploited Children. More information may be found at

Some parents and guardians think that online games are simply a form of entertainment. However, children also have the chance to exercise important life skills while gaming. They may use their imaginations and employ problem-solving strategies to overcome obstacles. They may also practice their social skills through online interactions with other gamers.

Using instant chat features, forums and voice-enabled interactions, children can communicate and collaborate with gamers all over the world. Unfortunately, these features can also expose children to people who may not have their best interests in mind.

Risks of Gaming

Many online games have communication features which allow their users to interact anonymously. Some people may take advantage of this anonymity to target children. For example, predators may send inappropriate content or use a game’s communication functions to arrange in-person meetings. Cyberbullies may harass fellow gamers and online scam artists may promise virtual goods in an effort to get credit card information.

Some game consoles allow Internet access as well so it is important to be aware of their communication features. Predators have sent children inappropriate content through game consoles in attempts to coax them into reciprocating or meeting offline.

Help children game safely

  • Parental involvement is critical when it comes to helping children game more safely. Take an active interest in the games that your child plays and wants to buy. You can research games’ ratings and content on This website is maintained by the Entertainment Software Rating Board which rates thousands of games each year.

  • Know which safety features are available on the gaming equipment that your child uses -a headset may have voice-masking features, for example.

  • Keep gaming consoles in an easy-to-supervise location and be aware of other places where your child may be accessing games.

  • Tell your child never to give out personal information while gaming or agree to meet anyone outside of the game.

  • Teach your child not to respond to anyone who is being rude or bullying while playing the game.

  • Set rules about how long your child may play, what types of games are appropriate, and who else may participate.

  • Have your child check with you before using a credit or debit card online.

  • Check to see if the games your child plays have reporting features or moderators.

Start a discussion with your child

Use these discussion starters to get an Internet safety conversation going with your children. The more often you talk to them about online safety, the easier it will get, so don’t get discouraged if they don’t respond immediately!

  • Can we play some of your favorite games together?

  • How do you respond if someone bothers you while you are gaming?

  • How much do you let people know about you while gaming?

  • What kinds of people do you game with?

  • Do you feel safe while you are gaming online? Why or why not?

Anyone with questions for the Chief’s Column may submit them by mail to the Brockton Police Department, 7 Commercial St, Brockton, MA 02302. You may also email your questions or comments to Please include an appropriate subject line, as I do not open suspicious email for obvious reasons.

Brenda I. Pérez

Chief of Police